Showing posts with label Sisters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sisters. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 28, 2011

BYU Womens Conference 2011

In April I had the privileged once again this year (... barely - flying at 34 weeks pregnant is sort or frowned upon but I did it anyway) to attend BYU's Women's Conference with my mother and sisters. IT was fantastic. So many inspired words and Ah-ha moments. That is one of the many things I LOVE about this gospel. It keeps teaching me. It keeps inspiring me to be a better person, a more whole person. Though the principles never change,  things I have heard and studied before many times but through the help of the spirit I am taught new things, touched and uplifted in ways I had never been before.

As part of the PLC retreat we stayed in wonderfully beautiful cabins up at Sundance. We were fed amazingly, we had our own driver... it was fantastic. Weather was good (mostly) and the company I was with was absolutely heavenly.

Sad that I wont be there next year with a nursing baby but I'll get the notes from my sisters. Besides, there's nothing better than a nursing baby, I wouldn't trade it for anything. 

Day ONE - brunch with oldest brother Dayne and then off for pedicures and manicures. It was wonderful but I was SO tired.

7 Sons cabin we stayed at up at Sundance for the PLC BYU Womens Retreat. Beautiful! It is so fun hanging out with my mom. Not only is she fantastic in every way but there are added benefits by mere association.

This bunk room is where we stayed. A kids dream room.  It slept 16 people but we had it all to our self.
My darling sisters
My darling mother and the worst possible view of a 8+ months pregnant woman. Oh well!


Mother daughter luncheon







our goodbyes :( boohoo

Cold and snowy one of the days. A fun escape from Austins beautiful (hot) weather.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Sisters Retreat Austin - 2011


“Sometimes when family members least deserve love, they need it most. Love is not appropriately expressed in threats, accusations, expressions of disappointment, or retaliation. Real love takes time, patience, help, and continuing performances.” Marvin J. Ashton, Ensign, Nov. 1975, 108


My mother and sisters came to me this year for our sisters retreat. They wanted to see my stomping grounds and I was so thrilled. We stayed in a resort on the lake and shopped, ate, saw a movie, shopped some more. ate some more. Had amazing sushi (if you like sushi) so I was told... I cant eat it and personally don't like it anyway but all in the name of love for my sister who does. I think the favorite stop for shopping was Sam Moon. We made too rather lengthy visits there. Is was just absolutely wonderful. I loved it. I love them.

It is rather amazing the power of a sisterhood. I love these women more than they could ever possibly know. They are each spectacular in so many ways. There are not many in the world whom I wish to be around more and certainly even fewer that I can learn so much from even by being silent, in their presence. They are sensitive, loving and forgiving in infinite ways. They are supportive and kind and understanding in ways only best friend sisters can be. It is sort of magical. And of course to have our mother dear with us was the frosting on the cake. She is marvelous in more ways than I could express.



Us women, together we can fit ANYTHING in a car.



Shopping "high" Must have found the best thing! Could she be any cuter!?
Diane is half my size! Not fair! But isn't my little cane chair awesome. Thanks Mom!



Oh my! The best burger shop in town!



"There is a strange glow on the face of a guileless person. Inner cleanliness has its own soap and water -- the soap of strong faith and the water of constant practice." ~Sri Sathya Sai Baba

Checking in.
Designated driver

Protection from Deb... in more ways than one!





So, Congress novelty. Hey Cupcake!

The Oasis




Many phone calls to loved ones at home.



Our goodbye :(  Such a wonderful few days always sad to say goodbye!!

Sunday, June 6, 2010

Women's Conference & Sister Retreat




Paradigm shifting. That could sum up all that I experienced at women's conference this year. My sweet darling held down our fort in Texas and cared for our angels perfectly while I was gone.  I was able to tag along with my dear mother who is on the PLC (Presidents Leadership Council= group of high donor philanthropist) at BYU and partake of her privileges by way of invitation. If was a spectacular few days. Edifying, uplifting and inspiring in every single solitary way. We were housed as part of the PLC Womens Retreat up at Sundance in the Ashtons Cabin, (the Wordperfect people) 3 nights approx 60 women. Among the company there were the owners of Jet Blue, Oakley, Black and Deaker  and on and on... Tremendously grounded and spiritually in tune women. One of my favorite things was to sit at the dinner or breakfast table and ask them to tell me their "story" not one of them mentioned their status or position or the companies in which they owned, but shared tender sweet vulnerable testimonies of their life's experiences, many of them included tragedy. Marvelous women and I am so grateful to have met them, a great gift. 

I experienced a candid conversation with an apostles wife, Sister Bednar and received memorable and personal counsel from Sister Ashton who serves on the general YW board of the church. I took copious notes of every talk and feel it nearly impossible to articulate all that I felt while at the conference but I will sum it up this way. 

Sister Beck... with a concerned and loving expression
said "this is an emergency meeting" and "I feel great urgency for the daughters of God to do all they can do". She taught me about being the strongest Lioness at the gate, to safeguard my home.  She said to "GO to the temple AND PAY ATTENTION!" (wow). She talked about priorities and that we loose power when our priorities are out of order. She broke things down into Essentials Things, Necessary Things and Nice to do things... She told us to get a floppy book of Mormon and write these 3 questions in it. "Who am I, What are my responsibilities and How do I fulfill my responsibilities" ... and "Do not fail in even one responsibility!" 

We learned about why women believe the things they do about ourselves. We learned to be explicit teachers of truth and about loving those hard to love. Elder Oaks talked about the godless and amoral generation we live in and the problem of american society we live in is that there is a preoccupation with oneself but that we have been prepared for this generation. and on and on...... so much to share here....watch my BYT blog and I will post those details soon. Really super marvelous! All I can say is this is the true gospel of Jesus Christ and that I know. 

Day one was marvelous. We went to lunch at the Church Office Building and then crossed the street for a closed to the public tour of some church archives. I was a little disappointed as I was sure we were going to see the sword of Laban (haha)... but for some reason they could not find it  :) so instead they they showed us 100's of millions of dollars worth of church archives items. The most priceless is one page from the original translation of the Book of Mormon. This sheet of paper below sat on the table side by side with the brass plates. Another interesting thing about this page was there was a 4th unidentified handwriting that they have never been able to source ownership. Very cool!!!


We had a mothers daughter luncheon one day and my 3 nieces were able to join us. 

Our view from the floor.

At the end of the day we would have a wonderful meal prepared at the cabin then we would high tail it over to our room where we would get in our comfies and piled in bed together. We would discuss thats days big ideas and life changing things that sisters talk about... at least this group of sisters. We always seem to have a beautiful blend of giggles, tears and motivation. I love these women. 


This was our last night up at the cabins. We had the privilege of watching Hilary Weeks in a private concert there at the Ashtons cabin. Really sweet!
Our stay at Grand America Hotel, the concluding night of our sister retreat. 
(In photo, sister Deb, me, Sister Diane, Niece Kylie)
We went to eat at this wonderful Italian restaurant in SLC and the owner was rather enamored at my beautiful mother so he treated us with bittersweet Italian hot cocoa and biscuits on the house.