"Hold fast to the blessings which God has provided for you. Yours is not the task to gain them, they are here; yours is the part of cherishing them"
Elder J. Reuben Clark, formerly a First Counselor in the First Presidency, June 1969
This year we decided to do something a little different and never done before, at least by our family. I have been known to put our Christmas tree up the 1st of November but always so with a bit of remorse because we are cheating ourselves out of Thanksgiving, pilgrims, gourds etc. Reluctantly, there always seems to be such an abrupt shift from jack-o-lanters and Halloween ghosts to... stockings and Santa's elves. Thanksgiving happens to be one of my favorite holidays of the year because it has such rich personal significance (if you let it) and powerful opportunities for reflection. There are few things that yield such joyous feelings, than unrestrained gratitude. I love to relic in Thanks giving as long as we can, no need to rush to Christmas, it will surely come!
As a compromise this year we did put our tree up the 1st of November but... this year it looks a little different. We decorated it as a thanksgiving tree. Until after Thanksgiving it is perfectly accessorized with fall berry's, twigs and floral but what makes it special, are the little scraps of paper that populate our tree. For family night a few weeks ago we discussed president Monsons talk "The Divine Gift of Gratitude" afterward we each all wrote down a few things that we were grateful for and placed those paper ornaments on the tree. Since that family night, I have found myself and the rest of the family on occasion gazing at the beautiful tree. I can not help but wonder if they can feel the same thankful joy I feel when I think of all there is to be thankful for. I am so very grateful for so many things, there are not enough scraps of paper or lead filled pencils around the entire world to write them all.
We love this tradition and it will be in our family a long while, that I know for sure!